Rethinking my stance about Imane Khelif

Imane Khelif was born with XY (male chromosomes) but she has DSD (look that up), and that makes her situation nuanced. It’s not her fault that she’s born like that. She has always lived as a woman.

But the fact remains that ‘she’ has male chromosomes and higher testosterone. That was why she was not allowed to fight in Women’s Category by IBA. Now, the Olympics has a different governing body. Given the situation, they decided to let her fight in Women’s Category.

When the dust settles, all I want to say is that us who give importance about these details are not transphobic. We do not hate those who are biologically different than us, and/or those who present themselves as the opposite sex. My concern is keeping the integrity of women’s sports. It was a long battle for women to have their own spaces, including in sports. The women’s boxing for example was introduced to the Olympics just last 2012.

There are reasons why male and female categories are separate in the first place. Even within each category, there are separate categories for each weight. This is to ensure a fair fight. Unfortunately, that is a basic requirement that is lacking when men are allowed in women’s category, even with nuanced situation like Imane’s. You don’t see transmen (biological women presenting as men) play in men’s sports because they know their biological disadvantage. It’s really the transwomen who hijack women’s sports. Look at the likes of Lia Thomas.

Therefore, I personally believe this should be a lesson learned. Either people with DSD follow their biological imprint (male or female chromosomes), or they are given a different category for intersex persons, or they should not be allowed to fight.

It is sad that women are bullied into silence when they speak out legit concerns like this. The irony is that those who consider themselves feminists are mum about this—when it actually matters the most. If we’re not going to speak up for women’s rights, if we have to be silent lest we ‘hurt’ other’s feelings or be called transphobe, what will be the future of Women’s Sports?

We already see it happening. It’s only gonna get worse.

This commentary was made based on this article. Posted by Hannah on August 10, 2024.

Do not steal someone's thunder

I would do the same. How dare you make my wedding day about you and your girlfriend.

What a jerk ‘best man’.

This commentary was made based on this original post. Posted by Hannah on August 8, 2024

Aim for Financial Freedom

Salary is not a flex. The real flex is financial freedom: No loans, no debts, but having savings, investments, and assets.

I wish for the financial freedom of everyone. Pero if ang lifestyle nimo maluho, deserve maglisod. Charot

This commentary was made based on this original post. Posted by Hannah on August 5, 2024

The Paris 2024 Olympics Opening Ceremony was GROTESQUE

The Paris 2024 Olympics spokesperson acknowledged that the opening ceremony director did ‘take inspiration’ from The Last Supper. The performers were also caught red-handed posting about it, so nice try with the GASLIGHTING.

iT’s abOut tHe fRenCh culTure

Mind you, Christians were just referring to The Last Supper mockery.

You know, I really don’t have beef with drag queens. If some men want to dress as women within their circle, go ahead. It’s none of my business. But do not drag and insult other faith. That’s where you cross the line.

Now that people are boycotting the Paris Olympics, the organizers changed their tone and used mental gymnastics to gaslight the offended Christians and changed their story. Boring!

Also, there had been a viral post supposedly explaining that the performance was jUst AbOut tHe fRenCh culture. Some people are so eager to share it. Again, look at the news where they did admit it was about The Last Supper—before the news outlets delete it (which I am sure they will).

This is not a hate against LGBTQ; it’s a callout to those who insult our faith. Christians have been so tolerant despite the real oppression, but God will not be mocked.

Posted by Hannah on July 29, 2024

Don't give rage baiters the attention they want

This is what you call Rage Baiting. They benefit from the clout. Bad publicity gets the engagement they need so if you keep on reacting and commenting on their original posts, you are putting money in their pockets.

Same thing the people of Butuan did to the woman who shall not be named. Ignore them if you don’t want them to be famous.

This commentary was made based on this article. Posted by Hannah on June 13, 2024

On the trending issue between Carlo, Trina, and Charlie

What we can learn from this: if you want marriage, make it clear from the start when dating. Do not force yourself with a person who do not want or believe in marriage.

Once one of you feel like the other is not the one you want to marry, have the decency to break up.

Do not be in a long term relationship with no sign of marriage. Do not allow anyone to waste your time.

Do not have a baby with a man who is not your husband. Playing house and having his baby will not change his mind about you if you aren’t the one for him.

Don’t give him all of your love and youth and who knows what else without the legal and emotional security of a marriage

Posted by Hannah on June 10, 2024

Having money vs. just keeping up with a lifestyle you cannot afford

My husband’s parents’ iphones are old, but they gifted us with another car for our wedding.

My husband’s phone is an old android but, you know…

It’s middle class behavior to care more about keeping up with the Joneses. Meanwhile the rich are earning, investing, and saving money.

This commentary was made based on this original post. Posted by Hannah on May 15, 2024

Graduations have become an avenue for showing off

This is not a commentary on this particular couple, but on graduations in general:

Nagkadugay, graduation ceremonies have become avenues for showing off and outdoing everyone with their bouquets and garlands.

Nothing wrong with giving them as a gift; afterall it’s a celebration of the success of the graduates and their support system.

However there is a fine line between giving a gift and also doing it for the clout. It takes away the attention that should be given equally to all the celebrants. Suddenly it’s no longer looking back at their journey and celebrating. Now it’s all about only one or a few people who got the most ostentatious gifts on stage. Some things are better done in the privacy of your own homes.

This commentary was made based on this original post. Posted by Hannah on April 5, 2024.

The Toxic Side of 'Utang na Loob' Filipino Culture

Napuno ug loan si papa sa una aron lang makahuman mi ug skwela. Kadtong naka trabaho na mi, ang iyang unang advice is, ‘Pagtigom mo ug kwarta labi na if gusto maminyo kay di lalim ug igo ra.’

Never sya nag obligar namo nga buhion sila ni mama kay sila pod sukad sa ilang kabatan-unan naningkamot aron makalingkawas. Kasabot sila sa feeling nga breadwinner sa ilang family bisan pa naminyo na sila.

Among pahalipay sa among ginikanan, resulta sa pasalamat sa ilang kamaayo—dili pinangayo, dili pinugos. Salamat sa mga ginikanan nga in-ani.

This commentary was made based on this original post. Posted by Hannah on April 5, 2024.

In defense of Maria Clara

 I agree that we shouldn’t box all women to a certain stereotype but in these modern times where society is devoid of class, I long to see feminine, kind, modest, and soft-spoken women. We can be that AND at the same time be assertive, educated, and ambitious—whatever that looks like. It doesn’t have to be black and white. Take what you want and leave the rest.

This commentary was made based on this original post. Posted by Hannah on March 11, 2024.